The gifts that the Selfish Persona offers is a deep understanding and care for what the self needs and for what the self desires. The Selfish Persona also by it's nature understands the importance of the self and of NOT OFFERING WHAT WE DO NOT DESIRE TO OFFER can be a lovely and valuable thing depending on the desire that you are trying to achieve.
Remember, not offering what we do not desire to offer can protect us from developing the Resentment Persona in an imbalanced way.
Watch this video to understand this particular gift of the Selfish Persona:
[[[PHYSICALLY THE GIFTS OF THE SELFISH PERSONA CAN BE SEEN WHEN WE TURN OUR BACK ON ENERGY SOURCES THAT ASKING US FOR SOMETHING THAT WE DO NOT WANT TO OFFER. STAND STRAIGHT LOOKING FORWARD. FIND YOUR CENTER. IMAGINE THAT SOMEONE YOU KNOW OR THAT SOMEONE YOU SIMPLY IMAGINE IS ASKING YOU TO GIVE THEM SOMETHING. THEY HAVE VERY GOOD REASONS FOR ASKING YOU TO GIVE THEM THIS THING. IT MAY BE TIME OR ATTENTION OR SYMPATHY OR AN ACTUAL THING. WHATEVER YOU IMAGINE IS GREAT. NOW IF YOU WANT TO GIVE THEM THIS THING THEN GIVE IT TO THEM. THEN IMAGINE SOMEONE ELSE APPEARING AND ASKING YOUR FOR SOMETHING....KEEP IMAGINING THIS HAPPENING UNTIL YOU DO NOT WANT TO GIVE. WHEN YOU DO NOT WANT TO GIVE IMAGINE YOU ARE TURNING YOUR BACK ON THIS PERSON. NOW TURNING YOUR BACK ON SOMEONE IS LIKE WHAT SELFISHINESS FEELS AND IT DOESN'T FEEL GOOD. HOWEVER SELFISHNESS CAN BE A PROTECTION FOR YOU AND DOES NOT NEED TO LEAD TO THE GUILT PERSONA BECAUSE IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO OFFER SOMETHING THEN YOU ARE RESPECTING YOUR DESIRE EVEN IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU DON'T WANT TO GIVE AND RESPECTING YOUR DESIRE IS A PART OF RESPECTING YOURSELF AND RESPECTING YOURSELF IS VERY IMPORTANT IF YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE YOUR GREATEST DESIRES.]]]]]
The Selfish Persona often walks hand in hand with the following personas:
--Loneliness Persona
--Original Persona
--Different Persona
--Desirous Persona
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